Listening to Mariah Carey song's (We Belong Together) so here i'm trying to find the meaning of life. What do life mean to me? Must be healthy, happy marriage, bear kids, happy home, happy with what we have.

I read Berita Harian today, regards to ramona was killed due to psychotic husband. Why must woman always at the losing end. Because women got no power like men, that is why men take women for granted anytime can beat, kick n many more. What i mean is that if u know that yr husband got some kind of psychotic problems dun be shy to seek for help before anything happen like poor Ramona was killed. Seeing psychatrist doesn't mean that u are mad or anything like that. Something that can be help by counsellingor taking some medicine, due to stress at work, marital problems, despress and insomia or many more. or u can also call AWARE they open from 8am to 10 pm everyday. I work in that kind of department so i see's many examples.

What happen if yr husband abuse or threaten u??? for example taking hammer or struggle u, spit at yr face. Smack u with something hard. Dun wait make sure u have witness to be with u. Things that he used, must keep for prove. Go to the police and make a report. This kind of guy u must make him go to jail or make his life miserable. Why must u tink of yr kids or whatever. U must let go even how much u love him, or u can try give him 2nd chance. If next time he do the same thing the best is to say good bye.

Remember, take yr kids with u, If u know that yr husband is having some kind of mental problems. U won't know what he will do to the kids kalau dah naik gila. N women dun ask for divorce let them said that, if not tak dpt duit for the kids n even for yrself, Looking n hearing from my fren experience. hehehe

To women out there, go for some karate, or teakwondo class for self protection, Do u guys watch ENOUGH (Jennifer Lopez)???? Something to learn from there. hehehe :)

Love Diva